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Servers/wait staff, do you find it rude if patrons stack their plates while waiting for the check? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 1 week ago by capybeby@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I’ve always ment for it to be helpful, but I can see it being read rude or passive aggressive. Thank you in advance for your time and your thoughts!

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[–] robocall@lemmy.world 87 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The thought is nice but sometimes guests did things that created inconveniences. I'd prefer it if customers let us take care of it ourselves.

Please don't put your straw wrapper or paper napkins in your drink cup. I can pour the ice/liquid into the drain but have to fish out the soggy paper bits.

[–] gofsckyourself@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago

Yeah, it really depends on if you know how to do it right. Generally, if you've worked in F&B before, then you should know.