this post was submitted on 02 Nov 2024
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Ye Power Trippin' Bastards

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This is a community in the spirit of "Am I The Asshole" where people can post their own bans from lemmy or reddit or whatever and get some feedback from others whether the ban was justified or not.

Sometimes one just wants to be able to challenge the arguments some mod made and this could be the place for that.

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Expect to receive feedback about your posts, they might even be negative.

Make sure you follow this instance's code of conduct. In other words we won't allow bellyaching about being sanctioned for hate speech or bigotry.


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  1. Mod of !anarchism@slrpnk.net posts a great Greta Thunberg quote, but then tries to use it to justify not voting in the upcoming US election
  2. Multiple people point out that’s very clearly not what she meant
  3. Removed by mod Removed by mod Removed by mod Removed by mod

Using your mod powers to decide who is allowed and not allowed to speak is not very anarchist of you, @mambabasa@slrpnk.net

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[–] poVoq 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

There are certainly many things that could be improved about Lemmy's moderation tools and general setup, I agree.

However the core argument is not about "talking with people who don’t agree with you is a valuable thing to do". There was no real disagreement about any topic where an exchange of ideas would be beneficial to both sides. Unless you have infinite patience, there is no point in arguing with people that don't even realize how hypocritical their position is, in fact usually doing so only results in them digging in their heels and arguing even stronger as you are likely challenging some of their deeply held believes. I believe this is what happened, and your reaction in the original post itself and even more so in making this new thread to complain about someone not having infinite patience with you pretty much proves that.

[–] PhilipTheBucket@ponder.cat 4 points 2 weeks ago

We have two very different opinions about what the purpose of moderation is. Among some other things.

There's a huge difference between "not having infinite patience" to talk with someone, and deleting comments from several different people who are trying to have a discussion with each another about how they disagree with your point of view, thus driving the conversation to some other location where people come to a broad consensus that you're out of line. Honestly, that's part of why I posted here, to serve as a check to make sure I wasn't the one being awful. There seemed to be a broad consensus formed after all the discussion, which I'm happy with. The slrpnk authorities as a group plus db0, seem to have their own consensus, which of course they've got a right to do.

If you've read some of my comments and exchanges and you've decided that talking with me would take infinite patience, then okay. If you've read Mambabasa's comments and think they deserve a position of authority, then okay. I don't seem to have any issues talking and interacting with a bunch of anarchists, and presumably a wide variety of people, in these comments. Probably I will continue to do so. Slrpnk can do what it likes.