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Most people aren't attracted to an entire gender so why do we frame attraction in those terms so much? (self.showerthoughts)
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[–] zoostation@lemmy.world 13 points 3 weeks ago

I'm attracted to femininity, first and foremost. Femininity is a requirement, and it's not flexible. But then there are other more flexible preferences about specific appearance or personality details I might like in a woman.