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What was something you learned too late in life? (lemmy.ml)

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[–] ILikeTraaaains@lemmy.world 29 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Not too late but later than I should have:

To seek professional mental health help
To understand that Bisexuality really exists. Growing up and in my teens in media and pop culture it’s seemed that you either were gay or straight, no other option.

[–] aphlamingphoenix@lemm.ee 4 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

And that being gay was bad. It was not conveyed well in our media, and our culture was full of negative connotations with non-heterosexuality. I feel you on this one. Bi people exist, and we're everywhere!