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People who've had cancer, what kind of support were you most grateful for during treatment? What support do you wish you'd had? (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 month ago by LeftRedditOnJul1@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I recently learned that a dear friend has an aggressive form of cancer. She is starting treatment soon. I don't know much about what dealing with cancer is like, so I thought I'd ask for people's experience here.

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[–] SnotFlickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 20 points 1 month ago

This one is very real. Unfortunately having cancer doesn't mean other people's lives slow down or stop having their own problems, and (especially in the USA) it genuinely is a big strain on friendships. It goes both ways, too, I feel like I'm a burden so I reach out less.