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Showerthoughts

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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The best ones are thoughts that many people can relate to and they find something funny or interesting in regular stuff.

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[–] haui_lemmy@lemmy.giftedmc.com 33 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Being cynical and defeatist is a coping mechanism. Like racism, its a form of dealing with a continuously shitty situation while not addressing the real problem.

If you look at the small amount of people that drink 1000$ wine bottles for lunch while you‘re struggling to pay the rent, then you find the problem these cynics are unable to address.

[–] Curious_Canid@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I do understand. I am constantly fighting that myself. For me it's an aspirational statement, not necessarily one I always manage to live.

[–] haui_lemmy@lemmy.giftedmc.com 6 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Same. I mostly try to be honest with myself as I found that copium rarely is helpful. We‘re in this mess now and we can either sulk or get going. I choose to get going day after day. Hows that for aspirational statements? :)

[–] abbadon420@lemm.ee 3 points 1 month ago

Excuse my lack of creativity, but "this is the way"

[–] Curious_Canid@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 month ago

It isn't glamorous and it doesn't grab headlines, but that is how these problems get fixed.

[–] Curious_Canid@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Making to tomorrow is sometimes not a small undertaking.

[–] haui_lemmy@lemmy.giftedmc.com 1 points 1 month ago

Fair enough. In bad times, that is true for me as well. But these times pass eventually. At least they always have in the past.