If depression is the emotional expression of the immobilization response, then the solution is to move out of that state of defense. Porges believes it is not enough to simply remove the threat. Rather, the nervous system has to detect robust signals of safety to bring the social state back online. The best way to do that? Social connection.

For people who don’t prefer social connection, I’ve seen that exercise works well

Edit: just want to highlight that polyvagal theory, the main point behind this article, is unsubstantiated thus far

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polyvagal_theory

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[–] Eol@sh.itjust.works 0 points 2 months ago (2 children)

It costs money to find people that don't suck.

[–] nifty@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Interesting, elaborate

[–] RisingSwell@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 2 months ago

Idk their point, but if you aren't in a city finding people costs money in travel at minimum, but also trying to go places to meet new people is typically a cost as well.

[–] Eol@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Cost of living.

[–] otp@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 months ago

One generally pays the cost of living whether they're meeting new people or not.

[–] friend_of_satan@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago

Can money solve that problem? I don't think so. It would help a bit, but surely not to a point that makes the significant difference.