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Hi all!

I've been looking into shapewear a lot recently and looking for any input/advice. I think I'm between rectangle and inverted triangle shape and looking to do some tummy squeezing, waist cinching trying to get more of waist and hip pads or something to make a more hourglass shape. A lot of hip stuff also has butt pads, which I already have enough butt I think ๐Ÿ˜… is there one garment that could do all of these any kind of decent, or is it easier/better to get a couple of things more focused on doing one thing good?

Also been thinking about breastforms, so any advice there would be appreciated there too!

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Things like baggy pants and flaired skirts/dresses can hide a lack of hips or waist. Also, making sure your waistline is above your pelvis is essential. Even if you have a gut, it helps a ton. If you want to wear a baggy top, wear tighter pants/leggings and have the top be longer as well.