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Why is music so loud in restaurants? (Serious) (lemm.ee)

submitted 3 months ago by JimmyBigSausage@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I got my hearing professionally checked today and all is normal. But I have difficulty hearing people I am dining with, talking in restaurants. Is it me, or is the music just too damn loud?!

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[–] NessD@lemmy.world 2 points 3 months ago

That was one of my biggest revelations last year. Figuring out I have ADHD and that's why it's hard for me to understand people, especially in crowded and loud spaces. Sometimes I found myself simultaneously listening to music, other people's conversations and my own conversations. Makes it quite difficult sometimes.