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Calves is the word! The spasms are happening in the calves.
Video I used to learn how to do sub-q. I watched some other guides as well, including one longer one going into more detail, but this was the video I kept checking over and over.
The cramps happen when I wake up (or the cramps wake me up), so it doesn't sound like a nerve thing. However you mentioned dehydration, and when I wake up is when I'm at my most dehydrated.
I already eat a lot of broccoli and I will try adding spinach and sweet potatoes as well.
More water is difficult, but electrolytes and sodium is doable.
Remembering and bothering to fill out any kind of log will be difficult for me, but it sounds like a good idea. I'll try. Perhaps a general hrt log is the way to go.
I eat mostly veggies (they're maybe not the wateriest kinds however), noodles, bread and cheese, lots and lots of eggs, and meat substitutes. I think my dinners at least contain decent amounts of water, unsure about my other meals. I think I drink enough? I drink probably 1-3 liters a day, but I don't keep track.
One study. A larger study. I haven't actually read these, but a quick skim seems to suggest that estrogen promotes some kind of vasodilation or is at least involved. I found these in a reddit thread by searching "vasodilation" "estrogen" and "reddit". It might not be relevant to my issues however (the reddit threads were talking about spider angioma), I can't really interpret this kinda stuff.
I mentioned in another reply here that I was unsure where I got the term vasodilation from. This is the thread that suggested to me that my issues were related to my blood vessels. They don't use the word, but somehow from there I got to vasodilation.
Thank you for taking the time to write this stuff <3 I will try to make some dietary changes, skip my next dose, and then have a chat with my doctor in two weeks.
Ah, I used to get spasms in my calves at night and the early morning too - they are called a "charley horse". Definitely drink more water, maybe ensuring you drink enough water before bed. Eating more bananas and so on should help, too.
You can also practice stretching the calves, I found this helped reduce my charley horses: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u4o0Fz6MFe0
Do you exercise much or at all? Taking walks every day might also help, if that is possible. I got charley horses the most when I was engaging in a lot of exercise, but I also had them when I was sedentary. The way we sit all day often promotes tightness in the muscles, so stretching is a good idea regardless (esp. hip and hamstring stretches).
In the Reddit thread where they speculated their leg pain was about blood vessels, they mentioned they are often dehydrated - another overlap in possible causes.
Looking up the general guideline, it looks like 3 litres is the recommended amount to drink: https://newsinhealth.nih.gov/2023/05/hydrating-health
It seems to vary based on age, weight, activity level, etc. - so this is highly contextual, you probably just need to drink more water, particularly before bed. (That can be tricky, drinking water right before bed can cause you to wake up at night to urinate, so you want to drink enough water at night up until around an hour before bed, and empty your bladder right before bed.)
Anyway - thank you for the links, that was helpful. I definitely found some changes to my circulation with estrogen, I noticed I don't feel as warm as I used to, though strangely it just feels like my temperature is "normal" now, it is colder than it was pre-HRT. So there are definitely changes, and maybe they are playing some role in your spasms, but I don't think the solution is to stop your HRT but to encourage better health through hydration, diet, and stretching.
Since you are DIY, if at all possible finding a way to get blood labs is a good idea so you can verify your levels are reasonable. However, since you are injecting, the risks from too much estrogen aren't that great (assuming the estradiol you sourced is pure / good quality and so on, that seems to be the greater risk with DIY).
Usually an overdose of estradiol can be felt with symptoms like headaches, fatigue, nausea, and fluid retention.