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Sorry for the potentially controversial question: is it normal for less attractive people to settle down with partners they don't find physically attractive? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 3 months ago by RebiJes@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 6 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

I guess, but like, what if I can't get it up, when things progress that far? (The genders are reversed here) Or just am obviously hesitant?

I feel like that's the worst time to have to explain.

[–] MajorHavoc@programming.dev 2 points 3 months ago

Lol. I get it, but it doesn't have to be a big deal. Just don't explain. They'll just figure they need to figure out different ways to stimulate, which is true anyway.