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When do you miss your ex? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 2 years ago by sascuach@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Me - when I'm lonely.

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[–] sascuach@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Are you thinking more about the person, or the idealized form you associate with the context that person had in your life?

Is much more along my lines

my study has been on the dialectics of relationships, not so much on how to think about them after

You study relationships?

[–] dwzero@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I studied mine. If I was going to address the problems we'd had, I needed to understand them. Understanding a problem isn't always enough to solve it though, as i found out.

[–] sascuach@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago

Understanding a problem isn’t always enough to solve it though, as i found out.

Can I ask you to share your story and findings?