voracitude

Investing in real estates and saving energies. Some of the advice of all time.

I'll throw my hat in for starting with DS9. I'm just finishing the final season with my partner now - her first watch - and it's really cemented why its my favourite Trek. It holds up incredibly well.

FWIW I'd go with seeing if you can get comfortable around him first, as suggested here. I definitely agree that you have to be ready before going on this trip, and hanging out with the dude to get to know him would be a big part of that. Because the truth is, the two of you likely have a some stuff in common and you'd probably get along really well under other circumstances.

If you're not mad at her anymore, maybe it might help to view him through the lens of someone who makes her happy; there's also an opportunity here to make a good friend who you can trust to take good care of her and your son if something happens to you. If you do decide to meet up with him, you might even ask her about some things she thinks you might like about him so you have some conversation starters. And, it's clear that there's good will on the other side to try and mend fences for the sake of the kid, which speaks well to both his character and that of your ex-wife. They could have just said no and never mentioned it to you, or worse they could have been scheming to cut you out of your son's life. A holiday invitation kinda says a lot about how they view you, when you think of it like that.

However you decide bud I hope you manage okay through all this, and I do hope you can find a way to be friendly with him. It's incredibly strong of you to even be considering putting yourself out there like that. As evidenced by most of the comments here, that would not be a common reaction. Good luck!

Splitting out storage and computer is definitely good first step to increase optimization and increase failure resiliency.

Exactly why I've been considering doing it this way for my new setup! I had to leave my last one on the other side of the planet and have felt positively cramped with just a couple TB worth of internal drives, can't wait to properly spread out again.

And republicans would expand it again 🤷‍♀️

They did, nobody who needed to hear it listened. They were all busy voting on a single issue.

Did you miss the news? It worked, he won. You can leave the propaganda mill and go home now, komrade.

The same kind as being used by the hyper-rich to nip down the shops for a ham sandwich?

Tattoo the rings, problem solved! 😁

Is there anything about yourself you had to work hard on for the benefit of your son? Are you doing anything specifically to try and make sure he turns out well (whatever that might mean to you)?

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I have never heard it called that, but IT is a big field - plenty of room to accommodate stylistic differences.