sky

joined 1 year ago
[–] sky@beehaw.org 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

What I did in 2018 was

  1. picked an instance where the local timeline looked interesting/relevant to some of my personal interests
  2. looked through there and also #hashtags for my interests
  3. through those avenues, followed everybody who looked remotely interesting at all! With the understanding that I was going to start big and some of those people probably wouldn't accept my follow, and some of them probably wouldn't turn out to be interesting to me/compatible in the end so I would remove my follow.

I feel like casting a wide net and filtering down to match your own taste and the kind of people you want to meet is a good way to start curating the Mastodon you personally want to see, since an algorithm isn't going to do it for you. It takes time but is rewarding in the end. With Masto in specific, most instances by now have upgraded software to the point where migration tools are available, so if you end up not even liking your local timeline you can take all your followers, follows, blocks etc and just try someplace else.

You could probably also use lists to help with this process somehow but I never really understood them either here or on Twitter lol.

[–] sky@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hats off to you guys, careening top speed accurately through all those tiny spaces is absolutely wild and you make it look easy ✨

[–] sky@beehaw.org 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

I've been on Mastodon for several years, most of it on a singular instance (well before the Twitter migration). You definitely have to go looking for your own list of interesting people to follow, and the hashtags are quieter than I'd like, but I enjoy it as a chill place to just hang out and read fun stuff and occasionally have low stakes conversations.

I've tried a few other fediverse services but none have really stuck with me except for probably now Lemmy and Kbin.

 

I have a rare muscle condition, to the point where I feel like I have to be careful where I even mention it because it might make me identifiable. It's pretty lonely sometimes because of the subset of people who have this condition, most of them don't make it to adulthood and I really don't have anybody to discuss shared experiences with.

Anybody else here in a similar boat?

[–] sky@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

It's always a quiet month for me, as I'm not in a hospitable area for the community. But it's wonderful to see the photos and videos of people coming together anyway around the world, despite the scary times we're in right now. I think times like these are when we need pride celebrations the most.

[–] sky@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

I feel awful for those being laid off, but honestly this was inevitably coming for SWTOR sooner or later. I'm just thankful they aren't outright shutting it down. My personal experience of the game is that it was never a great MMO, but it's an excellent single player game with occasional multiplayer interaction. I've gone back multiple times just to replay the numerous single player storylines.

[–] sky@beehaw.org 7 points 1 year ago

Yeah we already went through this exact thing with Masto and Twitter. The complaining about defed is particularly annoying to me, like... defederation is a feature of the fediverse, not a bug, lol... Hopefully the "this doesn't work exactly like MyFavoriteSite" folks will clear out eventually like the last wave.

[–] sky@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Can't believe we're coming up on the 11th anniversary soon. This has always been my favorite MMO.

[–] sky@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I accept it, but "happy" is the wrong word. I wouldn't say I wish I was straight and cis per se, there's nothing wrong with just being the way I was born. But being those things would make my life immensely easier so it would be nice. I don't inherently enjoy the queer experience in and of itself. I'm just being who I am.

[–] sky@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

I hope that newcomers to the fediverse come to understand that defederation is a feature, not a bug.

[–] sky@beehaw.org 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

If you like MMOs and other multiplayer games, https://massivelyop.com/ is very good. Talented writers funded by reader donations.

[–] sky@beehaw.org 5 points 1 year ago

No, I had a readthrough of all that before joining to make sure I'd be a good fit here. I was more just curious if there was common Lemmy culture in general as there is on many Mastodon instances :)

Thank you!

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by sky@beehaw.org to c/support@beehaw.org
 

Those of you who've been around in the fediverse a while longer, is there any established etiquette specific to Lemmy as opposed to the normal behavior in places like Reddit? I've been a Mastodon user for several years and I'm aware of how norms differ over there, so just wondering if this corner of fedi has anything similar.

[–] sky@beehaw.org 31 points 1 year ago

Thank you for both your labor, and for caring.

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