I'm like that a lot too with anything in space, but Star Wars clicked for me when someone reminded me it was fantasy in space, not science fiction. Ahsoka really leaned hard into the fantasy and keeping that in mind helped me with suspension of disbelief.
In other words, Star Wars technology is so different and advanced, we might as well consider it magic and not question when it goes against our normal understanding of physics.
I tried to listen to the audiobooks after watching the show. You're definitely right, the show knocked it out of the park.
I like that they ended it, but hope we get to see the story pick back up somewhere in the future. So many plot lines to continue exploring.