randomname01

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[–] randomname01@feddit.nl 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I mean, I guess there’s a point to that, but isn’t there inevitably a social aspect to it? Especially in this post, where the person is saying others don’t have to understand it, meaning it’s clearly outwardly visible and part of who they are.

I’m not saying you should seek approval from anyone (for your gender nor anything else), because that’ll never happen. But denying the importance of some social acceptance for things in the social sphere is kind of weird, and feels like a “haha, unless…?” thing; you want others to understand and accept it, but the moment you don’t their acceptance becomes irrelevant and you never sought any acceptance at all. It feels like an unhealthy way to cope with rejection.

[–] randomname01@feddit.nl 11 points 4 days ago

I think the language analogy is actually very apt, because not every has to understand it, but the people you want to speak French with necessarily have to know it. Otherwise it just doesn’t fulfil any purpose.

[–] randomname01@feddit.nl 28 points 4 days ago (5 children)

Also, because gender is a social construct, it requires that enough people understand it to a sufficient degree.

[–] randomname01@feddit.nl 2 points 3 weeks ago

Frisian is an entirely different beast, and even speaking Dutch doesn’t help you that much to make sense of it.

[–] randomname01@feddit.nl 4 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (2 children)

There are a bunch of expressions in Dutch, some even overlapping with English (like all hands on deck/alle hens aan dek). I could think of five to ten off the top of my head, so I imagine there are a lot more that aren’t as obvious.

[–] randomname01@feddit.nl 4 points 1 month ago

The creator of the video pointed out one good joke in the special, and sure enough - it’s about himself lol. So yeah, even when he manages to be funny on purpose he’s still the joke.

[–] randomname01@feddit.nl 13 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Not trying to counter your point, but female athletes that don’t dope don’t ever become super muscular. Like, look at Khelif. She has just proven she is the best in the world in a combat sport, and she still doesn’t look muscular to the point of looking male. The transphobes mainly came at her because her face isn’t super feminine, which doesn’t really have anything to do with boxing.

I occasionally hear women saying they don’t want to do workouts that target their upper body, and I’m always baffled because it’s not like they’ll ever even slightly look like a dude lol.

[–] randomname01@feddit.nl 27 points 1 month ago

“Haha I don’t exercise” irks me in a way few other things do. Like, fair deuce if you don’t want to exercise, but acting like it’s super quirky and funny gives me a certain impression I really dislike.

[–] randomname01@feddit.nl 2 points 1 month ago

It’s a good way to look like you’re working

[–] randomname01@feddit.nl 1 points 1 month ago

Shoutout King Leopold

[–] randomname01@feddit.nl 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Also, fun fact: Jeroom’s partner is Élodie Ouédraogo, an Olympic gold medalist.

[–] randomname01@feddit.nl 1 points 1 month ago

Right, I must’ve overlooked that. My bad.

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