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[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago

Ah, okay, thanks for explaining to us.

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Is this supposed to be indicating a problem because like if you like a person why should it matter what gender they are?

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago

Sadly wikipedia is mostly controlled by white supremacists who have a vested interest in being against such things:

Medium article: https://medium.com/@kamy1/racist-wikipedia-da005c564d13

Privacy frontend: https://scribe.bus-hit.me/@kamy1/racist-wikipedia-da005c564d13

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 month ago

That's interesting, thank you!

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 month ago

We didn't find anything about Nirtrile and protection. Could you clarify?

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 month ago

Ah, as far as we know we don't have ADHD, 'just' autism. Yeah, that seems like a likely outcome and way of coping with lower dopamine levels and we are glad it works for you.

We don't think toys etc alone would work, because at least one of us, we suspect all of us are demisexual and so having satisfying stuff is more about emotional connection and long slow sessions, it's what we've always wanted, we think and most we've come across are not like that as far as we know. We also have no idea how to do that with ourselves and as we've grown into ourselves and been more honest we've learned that most images, videos and stories out there don't really work for us, most it does is make us want to do things with others, since we don't really know how to with ourselves and maybe based on our sexuality it isn't possible, or at least not easy.

We appreciate that, if we think of anything we'll let you know.

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 month ago

You raise a good point, thank you.

Our post was more in the spirit of ignoring the non-consensual barrage of 'advice', shame and other such things both the fashion industry and other people lay on people all the time.

If some{one/many} want(s) it, that's different.

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Thank you for sharing, we greatly appreciate it.

You don't have to answer but if you'd like to, does the lack of relief mean you're always constantly horny too or is that just an us thing?

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 month ago

This made us laugh, thank you.

Yeah, we were joking in our previous comment, we were being intentionally hyperbolic in order to be humorous as the joke's expectation is that the 'fantasy' is going to be something else.

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 month ago (2 children)

This is a complete fantasy.

As if trans women produce any, let alone that much.

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

We guess we mean that, though we don't know if we ever have experienced one really so difficult to say. When this body was mostly T based it wasn't ever any good either, just a temporary reprieve, it wasn't ever satisfying.

We could try, we suppose, but we don't think so, there's some component missing from doing things to this body and we aren't sure what it is, even with toys we suspect.

We'll go have a look if there's anything good online to purchase, but we don't think physical sensations are going to be enough alone.

Mostly we just want to know if any other folks have or are experiencing this. We feel very alone in this and it seems it isn't talked about anywhere.

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 month ago

Agreed, as a fae.

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