maryXann

joined 4 months ago
[–] maryXann@lemmy.autism.place 4 points 2 months ago

I am a native French speaker who had a phase with an interest toward grammar, so I probably can help you with it if you are learning this language. Also I am quite good at explaining maths to kids or teens, even those with difficulties. It gets harder with adults.

[–] maryXann@lemmy.autism.place 6 points 3 months ago

The diag criteria are an ad hoc thing that only exists so that the society has a systematic way of deciding wether a given individual is autistic or not. Someone who just barely misses the criteria to be positevely diagnosed could very well have a lot in common with those who meet slightly more criteria.

Think of it like the administrative criteria to be considered "poor" in a given country: it helps to decide who can benefit from financial help and such, or to have statistics on how fair is the ressource distribution through the time, but it doesn't mean that your life will switch the very moment your income crosses the limit.

[–] maryXann@lemmy.autism.place 9 points 3 months ago

Hypersensitivity is its own thing but the comorbidity rate with autism is huge. I's also not always high pitches: personally I have issues with the air pressure, daylight, and many smells.

[–] maryXann@lemmy.autism.place 1 points 3 months ago

People would think the scenario is a bit contrived and they wouldn't believe is wasn't scenarized.

I have a tendency to do the things that will save a desperate situation but also (mostly) create stupid obstacles out of nowhere. Basically 'this guy' from an xkcd strip

[–] maryXann@lemmy.autism.place 4 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Oh, one call is already stressfull* for me, but I can manage it. Perhaps it would already qualify as "not comfortable". That said there is a gradation between your average "not your cup of tea but that's ok if you can take your time for it" and "risks having a meltdown in the middle of a phone call". It was dangerously close to that second category.

*Except those from that one person I'd marry if we weren't both 'commies' who think marriage is a thing of the past.

[–] maryXann@lemmy.autism.place 5 points 3 months ago

Good luck! Please tell us how it went, I hopefully will reach the same point as you at some point so your experience interests me.

[–] maryXann@lemmy.autism.place 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)

The one thing I like the least is A2. Seriously, once I had to sleep at a friend's house because I couldn't find my key, which was in my pocket all along. If said friend hadn't been there I probably would have slept outside.

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