hoodatninja

My apologies, I confused you with another user.

It’s takes a certain kind of person to accept an incompatible/dead bedroom six months into a relationship barring their being Demi/Ace. I would say it’s very valid for it to be enough to end the relationship. I know you’re saying it’s up to them and not wrong either way, but I feel like the tone (and follow up comment) maybe implied a little bit that it’s not a good enough reason.

I don’t think it’s manipulative or immature feel sadness when your partner gives a hard truth about the bedroom. That’s very hard to hear for most people. Anything critical involving sex is usually a relationship minefield no matter how mature either party is.

6mo can also be a long time. It’s not like it’s been a week. You can learn a lot and develop a real bond in 6mo.

So you’ve got what is probably a very serious relationship, and it is now threatened by a very hard truth about your sex life. That is a lot to process. A lot of people would rightfully cry over that.