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That is interesting. I have a friend with body dismorphia. I think there are different kinds of body dismorphia, and in his case, I trully do not think it represents reality. He is muscular, gym kind of physique, but he hates a certain part of it. I love the part that he hates, and I express it often. I wonder if I am doing the wrong thing? Should I be doing something else?

I am actually connected to a VPN server in Portugal! Are you Portuguese by any chance?

Also, there is something wrong with slrpnk.net, I think? I am seeing some behavior that I used to see on lemmy.world, namely, replying is taking forever (https://lemmy.world/post/90611). I click on "Reply" and it keeps on spinning. I don't remember how he fixed that, but I think it had something to do with the config file. I think he had debugging enabled or something to that point?

EDIT: It seems like this only happens from the Inbox screen.

EDIT2: Found the post to which I am referring: https://lemmy.world/post/288652. TLDR: "Federation debugging" was enabled. Should be disabled.

Hum.. I might have been mistaken then. I have tried XMPP many years ago and was left unsatisfied. Regardless, I am not able to move people to XMPP. Even getting them on signal is impossible, XMPP is double impossible..

Maybe one day! Small steps.

Why XMPP and not Matrix, which is something more modern, with E2EE and more broadly used.?

slrpnk.net takes a while to load. I am referring to the initial load. I tested without a VPN connection and it seems to only happen when I am connected to the VPN.. I am using Mullvad.

Any idea why this might be? Can you do something about it?

I would say the best thing to do is to report it on Github and drive discussion into the issue.. I find Lemmy moderation tools to be a bit lacking still... Hopefully they are working on them, as it is an absolute must, specially once a new wave of users come aboard.