avirse

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[–] avirse@feddit.uk 15 points 9 months ago

Having a group is only half the battle, the other half is getting that group together when one person works odd hours, another has chronic illness with lots of medical appointments, and a third has a bitch of a commute during the week so often can't get home in time.

For years we had games every Friday and Sunday, all it takes is a couple of people changing jobs to completely disrupt that setup.

[–] avirse@feddit.uk 3 points 9 months ago

Watching it at 1.5 speed helped immensely.

[–] avirse@feddit.uk 2 points 11 months ago

Sure they do, NTs do a lot of stim activities, the difference is that they don't need to stim in order to remain calm and centred, they can just do it because it's fun.

[–] avirse@feddit.uk 20 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yes, putting an electrical appliance in the bathroom is weirder than putting an appliance that requires both power and plumbing in the room that always has both power and plumbing.

[–] avirse@feddit.uk 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I also buy second-hand whenever possible, and try to fix things instead of replace them, and for the stuff I'm buying it's usually more expensive, not less. Especially when big stores offer free delivery on just about everything while your average ebay user obviously doesn't.

Recent example: I got a shoulder strap for a clutch bag and the clasp on the strap broke. It was only missing a tiny spring, so I found a tiny spring online and repaired it. The strap cost £5. The spring to fix it cost £6 including postage. But it worked!

[–] avirse@feddit.uk 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I had lessons from various people every summer for the first few years after I turned 17 (age you can start learning on public roads in the UK). I'd get to "test standard" each time on the mechanics of it, but navigating other drivers was too much so I never actually took a test, and never intend to.

I'm now in my 30s and have structured my life around not having a car. My house is on a 24-hour bus route into town where I work, and walking distance to most amenities. My husband does have a car, so he can drive us places that aren't on public transit routes (such as our parents' houses) but the vast majority of the time I'm doing my own thing while he's at his job an hour's drive away.

[–] avirse@feddit.uk 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I don't even seem to have a special interest. It's like I'm doing autism wrong.

[–] avirse@feddit.uk 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Suddenly that music video makes sense

[–] avirse@feddit.uk 18 points 1 year ago

No idea whether it's their reason, but anecdotally I've found it has a few benefits. If coordinated properly it's significantly easier to train new(er) staff, it improves cross-organisational understanding to overhear other departments' conversations either at desks or in break rooms, and it stops people becoming isolated pockets of knowledge and culture because they only ever see or interact with the same one or two people.

[–] avirse@feddit.uk 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Thank you very much :)

[–] avirse@feddit.uk 1 points 1 year ago

Fabulous, thank you!

[–] avirse@feddit.uk 6 points 1 year ago (7 children)

Alas, "[t]his content is not available in [my] country/region", any chance of a mirror/archive link?

 

I came across this article from 2018 and it really spoke to me as a late-diagnosed autistic only just learning what "comfortable" feels like.

 
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