ParsnipWitch

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[–] ParsnipWitch@feddit.de 8 points 9 months ago

The average user of Lemmy has more empathy with a two times convicted rapist than with Amber Heard or that one woman from this atrocious Tiger King series.

[–] ParsnipWitch@feddit.de 1 points 9 months ago

Jep, Not even two years for his second rape.

[–] ParsnipWitch@feddit.de 1 points 9 months ago

Murder doesn't get laughable sentences. Like under two years for a repeated offender.

Murderes also normally don't have a whole bunch of people online rallying behind their right of redemption. It's only rapists who get this and suddenly everyone turns into Jesus online and demands the victims better forgive them!

[–] ParsnipWitch@feddit.de 1 points 9 months ago

Why is this "especially relevant to rape cases"?

[–] ParsnipWitch@feddit.de 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

What do you think can restorative justice look like for crimes like torture (that is what rape is)?

[–] ParsnipWitch@feddit.de -4 points 9 months ago (8 children)

"Trauma is part of life"? Murder and dieing is also part of life. Sorry, but that just doesn't make sense. Trauma in a clinical sense is certainly not "part of life".

[–] ParsnipWitch@feddit.de 8 points 9 months ago

There is no reason why rape is judged much less severely than torture though.

[–] ParsnipWitch@feddit.de -1 points 9 months ago

In the absolute majority of rape cases there is no bettering themselves happening because the rapists never face any consequences to begin with.

[–] ParsnipWitch@feddit.de 13 points 9 months ago (2 children)

There sadly are even more countries that are completely under control of religious leaders. Saudi Arabia, Sudan, Iran, Afghanistan, .... Vatican City (they even have something like their own military).

[–] ParsnipWitch@feddit.de 2 points 9 months ago

In theory, he doesn't know whether he's the only one. They could all be fake Nazis and no one knows.

[–] ParsnipWitch@feddit.de 0 points 9 months ago (8 children)

This doesn't work if you have a clash of cultures, though. How do you enforce that on people with a different culture and is that even okay?

For example, I read books to and with young kids in the local library once a month to help them learn the language (German). I have a hard time explaining to some of them and their parents(!) that it's not okay to just take the books and, for example, sell them online.

I had a discussion with a woman who took an entire stack of identical books and she thought, since no one is checking her bags and she can easily take them, why shouldn't she?

The same with rules for walking over a red light or driving your bike like a crazy person. There is no police in sight, why shouldn't you walk over a red light or speed through the shopping street?

Cultural rules seem to be good on a first glance. But they are a fickle thing. And people who aren't used to them are confronted with potential pitfalls.

You need police and fines because at one point just relying on cultural norms won't work anymore. Police can be done much better, though. And instead of fines people should use community service more.

[–] ParsnipWitch@feddit.de -1 points 9 months ago (2 children)

You actually believe the solution is that there are no police officers? And that would help poor people?

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