Oteron

joined 1 year ago
[–] Oteron@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Can't wait to try it! I love what they did with 1.2

Update: I'm happy to report that the new Shape Builder tool works really well and is very intuitive to use.

[–] Oteron@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

Thank you for sharing!

I went through a corporate buyout and was laid off from my last job. The company changed direction and didn't need the whole branch I was in.

I'm happy you've found your rhythm. That sounds great!

[–] Oteron@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

"Sabbatical" is a new concept to me as well. Where I'm from, they are unpaid.

I do subscribe to the idea that you should definitely provide a sufficient value to earn a paycheck and I do like the idea to first look inwards for the problem. I don't think what you described is a sustainable way to live though. Expectations are external and you don't have much, if any, control over them. If "not being at 100% of expectations is the same as suicide" for a long period of time, than that mindset itself is suicide. How can you always meet a 100% of something you have no control over?

Don't get me wrong, I know people's situations are vastly different and sometimes you do what you have to do at a given time to survive. But if you operate like that for a long-time, I don't think your psyche will stay intact.

Thank you for sharing!

[–] Oteron@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

Thanks for sharing!

30% more productive sounds great!

[–] Oteron@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Thank you!

I should probably do something similar and mute all my notifications from work after work-hours. Sometimes people like to explain tasks for me in the evening to not forget them the next day. It really doesn't help with unwinding.

[–] Oteron@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

Thank you for sharing!

I like your mental game! I've been doing something similar but maybe not as in-depth.

[–] Oteron@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

Thank you for sharing!

I do try to remind myself that work is always there waiting for me. Even with the unmet weekly goals the work just transfers to the next week.

As for hobbies - I love drawing as well. I used to do it regularly. I do have unfinished sketchbooks but my workplace isn't somewhere I can really draw. I probably should actively try to pursue that again. It's somewhat therapeutic and takes my mind off of things.

Thanks again!

[–] Oteron@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Yeah, that's sound advice! Thank you very much!

[–] Oteron@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

Thank you very much for the insight!
The last paragraph is what I was suspecting from the start.

I appreciate your response!

Best of luck to you too!

[–] Oteron@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

You pinpointed all the pain points at my workplace. We are a startup, understaffed, in my opinion, and long estimates are frowned upon. Our main project is what we were hired for, so transferring is also not an option.

Thanks for chiming in!

[–] Oteron@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I do take short breaks (one or two days at the end or the beginning of the week) but not too often, because we are understaffed, and my vacation would mean more work load for my colleagues.

 

I've noticed (with the help of family members and my SO) that I've become very negative, cynical and drained lately. Reading about burnout, I find all of the symptoms to be true for myself.

My job requires me to work on a single project full-time, and a couple of small side-projects. The management of the project is very chaotic and I feel more and more inadequate for my position. Priorities constantly change and just looking at the week's schedule in Monday, I can tell the we're not going meet the set goal by Friday. It has been like that for more than a year. It doesn't help that I've become very pessimistic about the main project's future.

Outside of work, I don't have much free time. The little I have, I try to spend with my loved ones. Hobbies and other interests are on the back burner.

As the title implies, I don't have the option of quitting or taking a sabbatical at the moment.

I know kbin is not a replacement for therapy but I was just wondering if anyone has been through this and found anything helpful other that distancing from their current workplace.

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