As a redditor it seems like scary infighting
As a lemmonereringer it seems intriguing, im interested where this goes and i will follow up on the development
As a drun,k im drunk๐
Gatsby
joined 1 year ago
Im not an expert and im not the best person to talk on this subject. I just stumbled on it and ill do my best.
What you sre attracted to in adult media doesnt make you trans. Its absolutly okay, weither you are male, male to female, female, or female to male, (or other). You can have attraction to any or all points of the spectrum for any point you're starting from. Its totally fine to be trans and totally fine to be wholeheartedly cisgender and attracted to trans people.
Crossdressing can be absolutly cis-fantasy, as well as trans-fantasy. I totally understand envying women in chothing choice. I hate pants in summer, a skirt would be a much more comfortable choice. But like you said, a skirt is a more feminine look. Are you fantasising about the clothing? The look? Or the femininity?
Luckilly. You can try the clothing in private. If that feels more like the true 'you,' make a note. Thats not your answer though. And theres absolutly nothing wrong with being a male who gets satisfaction from womens clothing and not going farther. This is a personal journey for you. Nobody else can walk it for you, but the right friends can walk it with you.
If you still feel like you're holding back, you need to ask what and why you feel like you're restricting yourself. If you want to try makeup, you can be a guy who wears makeup. This is where my knowledge lapses, and im sorry, but dont worry about gender stereotypes to do what makes you feel like you. If people dont like it, they didnt like the real you. If you dont tell them who you are, nobody else will. Experimenting doesnt make you trans if you decide you arent trans, but it will make you know yourself better. And wiether you decide you are. Or you arent, you will find the people who love the real you, and youll have a better idea who the real you is.
To simplify it as much as i can, defederation should be read only. Not if(in our group/(then)they have access
The instance itself shoud be able to say it does not want content created from a subset of the internet. (Personally Its not my first choice as a freedom of speech advocate. But for them to delcare who is welcome to talk in their house is a decent compromise.)
To benefit the federation as a whole, the information and conversations taken place there should be available to the whole of the hive.
The mods could have their pie not needing more hands to manage the influx, the fediverse would have their pie with more content as a whole. ie more information available to more people at a loss of fewer availible accounts with acces to comment within restricted instances.
Defederation to me == we cant moderate the collective to our standards.
We cant moderate the collective to our standards =/= IF Y'ALL BADDIES FUCKING READ OUR SECRETS WE'LL DO SOMETHING NAUGHTY
We have the technology to find a middle ground.
Im nkt here to hunger strike from reddit until i get hungry. Im willing to hunger strike till i die. Fortunatly lemmy seems to be a source of nourishment but ive made my decision.
The risk is significantly reduced if the instance its running on and the domain host is in a country that isnt legally obligated to honor DMCA takedowns. Wothout doing research, this instance likely is in a major country, and therefor not its permanent location because of this. but whats different than reddit is we have the capability to host the servers ourself where we want.
Once(if) its taken down, another instance can be run from a more friendly country and DMCA notices wont have any weight legally.
The only problem then would be popular home instances going excommunicado with the pirate instance like that bee one did recently
Into darkwave/witchhouse while i ride my motorcycle in the current lightning storms here
Sometimes, i dream about cheese.
It seems i chose my server... wisely
Edit: how can i donate to lemm.ee, i guess i should throw in my buck o' five.
Switching the renderer to vulkan helped for me
Has Shoshon The Elegant vibes