I have two kids who are 3 years old (they are twins). I accepted that my house can't be as clean as it used to be without my kids...
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No, I don't struggle, because I feel no compulsion to keep it tidy in the first place :)
I do! But having scheduled company over for dinner and an RPG session once a week has helped me get over the procrastination to do the bare minimum to keep the house presentable.
I don't have kids and live alone in Tokyo. Space is limited so keeping things neat and tidy is a must. Also idk I just can't relax if I know there is still some small housework to be done (dishes, etc.).
If you have two year old I think you can be forgiven for a bit of chaos! Don't stress.
Donβt have a tip from my own life, but I know someone who has them π
I can highly recommend minimalmom on YouTube. She makes videos about family minimalism, and I think her info may be very useful.
She is currently running a course on minimalism that explains the concepts of it.