It is well known that I was banned from Hexbear for this comment, among others:
"They" is a non gendering pronoun. If you use they/them, you'll never misgender anyone, but you'll also never gender anyone correctly either. Some people are okay with not being gendered and some people aren't. You should respect their wishes once you've heard them, but I don't believe you have any obligation to check them in advance.
Let's be clear about the meaning here. I stated, in the clearest terms possible, that you will not misgender me by calling me they/them.
@Outdoor_Catgirl@hexbear.net responds to me being called they/them with:
Let’s not misgender even enbyphobic weirdos.
Catgirl obiously thinks it's misgendering to call me they/them. In contradiction with my directly and famously stated pronoun preferences. What could possibly be more libshit than incorrectly correcting someone's pronouns? Catgirl seeks to align my understanding of my gender with her preferences, ignoring mine even while claiming to defend me. What a transphobic liberal.