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[–] uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone 87 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Calling US police officers pigs speaks poorly of actual pigs.

[–] JustZ@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

That's true pigs have an acute sense of justice.

[–] UnrepententProcrastinator@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

For a second I thought you were a cop because of the U.S.

[–] uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 year ago

Police violence in the US is very serious and deserving of investigation by the ICJ as a crime against humanity, especially considering law enforcement behavior in low-income and non-white neighborhoods.

There are no good police officers in the States anymore. Those that don't engage in violence or robbery themselves have to support and defend those who do, often by lying in court.

Since the international community is held at gunpoint by the threat of the US military, it will eventually come down to another wave of NGO nazi hunters to bring them to justice.

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 68 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 79 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Some trans women use grindr to pick up bi dudes

[–] Whattrees@lemmy.blahaj.zone 31 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Brb, gotta make a Grindr account real quick...

[–] MataVatnik@lemmy.world 22 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Better off finding them elsewhere. Too much competition in grindr they will not return your attention.

[–] DaGeek247@kbin.social 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Weird, the ones on the app i've seen have usually been as horny as everybody else on that app. Grindr is actually a pretty okay place to find masc and transmasc people, compared to anything else i've used. If whattrees was serious about it, i would actually recomend grindr for them.

[–] June@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ok but where do I find the twink femboys?

[–] subignition@kbin.social 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

OnlyFans; they don't actually exist and it's all a plot so Big Gay can abscond with your fashionable ascots.

[–] MataVatnik@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Honestly? When I had a picture of myself cross dressing on Tinder I had a few attractive trans people match with me, much to my surprise

[–] trashgirlfriend@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

If you're crossdressing or look queer, you'll probably get hits from trans people.

If you just look like a normal cis bi dude, you probably won't get much thk.

[–] swab148@startrek.website 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Where though? I haven't found a dating app that isn't complete garbage and mostly interested in keeping you single so you can keep paying them.

As a general rule for dating apps, I've found for me, the best strategy for getting matches that turn into dates does not involve paying them. I'm not super attractive so it doesn't just happen on it's own, but if I leave the app alone for a few weeks/months, in an effort to drive your activity up, they will push your account to get you more matches. It works on me. I'll use the app for a day or 2, get a bunch of matches and some dates out of it, then they dry up and I stop using it again. Rinse and repeat. It's worked pretty consistently for a while now for me. But you have to stay completely off of it. Don't even open it to clear notifications or boredom scroll. When they say your account is about to become inactive, don't believe them. It'll come around and you'll get some notifications.

I don't know 100% that that's what's going on, but it's the thing that makes the most sense when using it gets me nothing but when I ignore the app, eventually I'll just get 2-5 matches in a single day out of nowhere.

[–] JusticeForPorygon@lemmy.world 40 points 1 year ago

Okay but like that was funny

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 21 points 1 year ago
[–] TheBlue22@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 year ago (2 children)

What kind of shitass pickup line was "what is such a beautiful girl doing here"???????

What, only ugly women use dating apps or something?

Looking for a relationship or looking to fuck, what else would she be doing there

[–] Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

This app is Grindr. It's a hookup app for gay men.

Not exclusively. It's pretty common to see trans women on there, along with the cis men and trans men. It's so expected that you'll frequently find people on there specifically looking for trans women

[–] TheBlue22@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago

OH.

okay well in that case that question does make sense lmfao

[–] Sunfoil@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

Astonishing failure of reading comprehension. Its literally right there. He asked what she was LOOKING for.

[–] caesaravgvstvs@feddit.de 6 points 1 year ago

Ma'am, this is a Grindr

[–] Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago

Now this ia the kind of cop roleplay sex I could be into.