this post was submitted on 20 Aug 2023
40 points (100.0% liked)

Transfem

3441 readers
44 users here now

A community for transfeminine people and experiences.

This is a supportive community for all transfeminine or questioning people. Anyone is welcome to participate in this community but disrupting the safety of this space for trans feminine people is unacceptable and will result in moderator action.

Debate surrounding transgender rights or acceptance will result in an immediate ban.

Posters may express that they are looking for responses and support from groups with certain experiences (eg. trans people, trans people with supportive parents, trans parents.). Please respect those requests and be mindful that your experience may differ from others here.

To make such a request, at the start of the body of your post, not in the title, the first line should look like the this: [Requesting Engagement from _________]

Some helpful links:

Support Hotlines:

founded 1 year ago
MODERATORS
 

I have been getting this sickness roughly around the 20th of each month, and I am starting to wonder is this a period? I usually get nausea and a headache, and I feel like I might be a bit moodier, but this could also be a result of me being sick.

top 10 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] Zymii@lemmy.blahaj.zone 23 points 1 year ago

It's a thing! Taking hormones can cause you to get a cycle. I get cramps and a bit of an upset stomach around the same time as my cis partner. It's really interesting.

[–] fadingembers@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Hey Sky, here's some information about trans women's periods: https://curvyandtrans.com/p/C4BD87/cycle-dynamics

[–] Aviandelight@mander.xyz 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That was fascinating, thanks for sharing!

[–] fadingembers@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 year ago

Definitely!

[–] MapleEngineer@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My trans friend thought she was having her period because she had pain and spotting. It turned out she had a bleeding bladder infection.

[–] EsheLynn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Did she think she spontaneously grew a uterus and ovaries, or did she not have sex ed when she was younger? I would assume it would be more common knowledge how menstrual cycles work.

[–] Captain_Waffles@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Given how many grown adults think you can hold in your period, that everyone gets their period at the same time, cramps are fake, having sex standing up means you won't get pregnant "cause gravity" (she had two kids and still believed that), tampons are sex toys, periods are sexual and therefore children shouldn't be taught about them..... Yeah, how menstrual cycles work is not common knowledge many places. And yes, I've met people who believe every single one of these things.

[–] Sneptaur@pawb.social 6 points 1 year ago

Hi, I just want to say I get these symptoms too

[–] Musicgasm@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I definitely get pms symptoms. They typically resolve after a couple of days of cramps and gastrointestinal symptoms. It was actually my mom that noticed the cyclical nature of these symptoms and said they reminded her of her cycle (before she had her uterus and ovaries removed). So, while I don’t think we get periods per se, I definitely believe we can have period symptoms.

[–] skymtf@pricefield.org 5 points 1 year ago

Yeah perhaps. I don't know but I just knew my once a month sickness kinda sucks.