My interests do not align with "productivity."
Everything required for survival is a massive drag mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
~~Stop playing the rigged game~~ Drugs, mostly.

[–] Kiosade@lemmy.ca 13 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Just don’t try to apply those steps to a problem an SO is having… sometimes they just want to complain and have someone listen.

[–] flughoernchen@feddit.org 16 points 4 months ago (1 children)

It's totally valid to ask: "Would you like my advice or would you like me to just listen?" It shows you actually care about the person and that it's okay if they just want to vent. But you're still there if they want and need help.

[–] Kiosade@lemmy.ca 6 points 4 months ago

Thank you, I will take that to heart :)

[–] AlecSadler@sh.itjust.works 11 points 4 months ago

This is the most succinct form of the way I felt growing up I have ever read.

[–] TheBat@lemmy.world 5 points 4 months ago

That's me on dating apps.