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[–] PM_ME_VINTAGE_30S@lemmy.sdf.org 75 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (17 children)

This is a real video (NSFW obviously) for anyone interested, although she literally mentioned 196 in the video so I'm guessing it's not news around here.

Tap for resultsMac and cheese was the most fuckable, followed by tortellini

[–] chumbalumber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 26 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (7 children)
[–] Robaque@feddit.it 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Do you know why? I'm curious because she presents as masculine and doesn't seem to have any hangups presenting as such so it leaves me a bit confused. Like, with gender being a social contruct and all, gender neutral pronouns for all is my personal ideal, but yeah I don't get why someone would choose pronouns associated with the gender they don't actually "traditionally" present as. Is it about being intentionally subversive?

[–] gothic_lemons@lemmy.world 7 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Gender identity != gender expression. Haven't watched the video but maybe she going for more of a butch look? Some trans women go for more of a butch look cuz that's what feels right for them (source me).

[–] Robaque@feddit.it 9 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

As far as I can tell, they physically present as masculine (albeit non-traditionally), perhaps with elements of femininity (I mean when it comes to specifics that kinda stuff is subjective), rather than butch/masculine femininity or smthn.

I just checked their reddit acc (u/anarcho-stripperism) and they still have their preferred pronouns as they/she/them, and seeing that they're anarchist, perhaps they are going for a more subversive breaking-the-gender-binary thing (which I think is cool!) rather than something specifically about gender identity.

[–] chumbalumber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 3 months ago (1 children)

She has said she needed to present masculine to be able to earn her living through sex work, I believe

[–] Robaque@feddit.it 2 points 3 months ago
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