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[–] EveryMuffinIsNowEncrypted@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

Pretty meh so far, at least until tonight before I got off work: shortly before closing, I had an asshole come up, buy some cigarettes (I work at a gas station), and then and only then after having finished his transaction, turns to me and says, "Just so you know, there're only two genders."

I responded with, "Just so you know, I don't care." and then he flipped me the bird without even looking at me as he was walking away.

This is not the first time this has happened to me, and I try to put on a tough face to these dick-waffles, but honestly, it still hurt me and I hate how I'm emotionally vulnerable to it, even if I don't show it to them. :(

 


Edit: Hooooly SHIT. The dude just came by today and apologized for his behavior.

I accepted it gratefully and gracefully but godDAMN was I not expecting that. I am...so confused. I am happy...but confused.

[–] lady_scarecrow@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

I bet the guy wasn't sober when he did that. He probably still thinks that way -- alcohol doesn't make people lie, it makes them far too honest -- but realized the next day that the way he had acted was screwed up.

Balls, if that's the case. Still, at this point, I'll take what I can get. Lol.

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 5 months ago (1 children)

It would be great to have a bag of rainbow or trans pride colored gummy candy dicks, so you can tell them to eat a dick (and have some on hand for them!)

[–] EveryMuffinIsNowEncrypted@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Lol, that would cost money they don't deserve to have spent on them. X3

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

Venting to the internet got you an apology from an asshole, quick, complain about not getting a raise before your luck runs out! 🤯

I need more money! Goddammit the rent is TOO. DAMN. HIGH.