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I know its an old post but years ago I saw a therapist who advertised "Quit smoking therapy" where he just encouraged you and talked about the thought processes involved in quitting. Sounded like hokey bullshit but my then girlfriend now wife booked me an appointment after I failed to quit again and this was a topic we covered.
Im heavily paraphrasing but "They say quitting smoking is really hard, but let me ask you 'Who benefits the most out of you thinking its really hard?' The only people who want you to think quitting is really hard is the people selling you cigarettes, because who wants to go do really hard unpleasant shit? I sure as hell dont. So take that "Really hard" mindset and put it aside, its still unpleasant. But we do unpleasant every day, we get up and go to work and thats all quitting smoking is... its work."
Well put