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Please help! Argh! Im thinking about it right now. Get these thoughts out of my head.

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[–] MajorHavoc@programming.dev 6 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

Having gone back and forth, I now do my best to reserve one and only one "give-a-shit" for work, per day.

Luxuriously, my single daily give-a-shit is quite effective, because I'm very good at what I do.

Anyway, perhaps my mantra could help you "Is this worth spending my daily give-a-shit on?"

Just try not to say the mantra out loud.

[–] HubertManne@kbin.social 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Ill give a shit the whole workday but it annoys me to not leave it there. Heck I don't even begrudge the back of mind solving that happens overnight or weekends. Thing with yesterday is it was like messing with my ability to relax and watch a show.

[–] MajorHavoc@programming.dev 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I've had that. I hate it.

For me, it was a sign it was time to change jobs.

The bigger sign was my spouse telling me "you need to change jobs", of course.

[–] HubertManne@kbin.social 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Im in the US and my spouse needs healthcare. Main reason I don't change jobs or just contract really.

[–] MajorHavoc@programming.dev 3 points 4 months ago

Oof. Yeah. Gotta do what ya gotta do.

I really did have a mantra, to help keep it in check, when I was dealing with that.

After hours, it was "I spent that give-a-shit at work, already."