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[โ€“] Catarinalina@lemmy.world 3 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Thank you! That perfectly describes the "time blindness" problem I've been noticing more and more lately. There's always been a descrepancy between what I think is a normal time between contact and what others think. I'll happily move on to my day-to-day life and then contact a friend a month or two later and they'll feel resentment because of the time. Honestly I hadn't even noticed it, certainly wasn't intentional or meant to hurt.

[โ€“] joenforcer@midwest.social 5 points 6 months ago

Friendship is a two-way street. If they resent you for the time when they could just as easily contact you too then they're not a good friend.