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General trans community.

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  1. Follow all blahaj.zone rules

  2. All posts must be trans-related. Other queer-related posts go to c/lgbtq.

  3. Don't post negative, depressing news articles about trans issues unless there is a call to action or a way to help.

Resources:

Best resource: https://github.com/cvyl/awesome-transgender Site with links to resources for just about anything.

Trevor Project: crisis mental health services for LGBTQ people, lots of helpful information and resources: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/

The Gender Dysphoria Bible: useful info on various aspects of gender dysphoria: https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en

StainedGlassWoman: Various useful essays on trans topics: https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/

Trans resources: https://trans-resources.info/

[USA] Resources for trans people in the South: https://southernequality.org/resources/transinthesouth/#provider-map

[USA] Report discrimination: https://action.aclu.org/legal-intake/report-lgbtqhiv-discrimination

[USA] Keep track on trans legislation and news: https://www.erininthemorning.com/

[GERMANY] Bundesverband Trans: Find medical trans resources: https://www.bundesverband-trans.de/publikationen/leitfaden-fuer-behandlungssuchende/

[GERMANY] Trans DB: Insurance information (may be outdated): https://transdb.de/

[GERMANY] Deutsche Gesellschaft für Transidentität und Intersexualität: They have contact information for their advice centers and some general information for trans and intersex people. They also do activism: dgti.org

*this is a work in progress, and these resources are courtesy of users like you! if you have a resource that helped you out in your trans journey, comment below in the pinned post and I'll add here to pass it on

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[–] lady_scarecrow@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (1 children)

Where do you come from, and where you wanna go this time?

Sorry, I couldn't resist.

Seriously though, first I found out I was interested in men (thought I was bi at first), that made me start seeing more lgbtq-related stuff. One day I found someone saying they were "questioning their gender" and I was like, "what is that supposed to mean?" So I looked it up.

A few weeks and an existential crisis later, I finally figured out I'm a woman.

Later on I realized the feelings I've always had for women weren't really attraction. but envy and admiration. (And yes, I know those are not mutually exclusive.) So everyone assumed I was a man attracted to women, but in reality I'm a woman attracted to men. I did a full 180 and yet, I'm still straight. Ain't that something

[–] cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Where'd you come from where'd you go where'd you come from cotton eyed joe

[–] lady_scarecrow@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Now I have two songs stuck in my head.

By the way, how'd you get your pronouns to show up next to your username like that?

[–] cowboycrustation@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Added it to my display name. It's not a special flair. You should be able to go into settings on the site and click on profile and change it there.