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[–] Syrc@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

As far as I know there’s not much difference in beauty canons between women and gay men or men and lesbians. So it’s not really saying much.

[–] HardlightCereal@lemmy.world -3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

That's not true at all. I'm a nonbinary femme attracted to nonbinary femmes, and I have a similar sense of beauty to many lesbians, when it comes to pretty women. When I see an image of a woman that's framed to appeal to male sexuality, I feel a sense of revulsion. Sapphic porn is way more respectful, more humanising, and way more hot to myself and lesbians than porn made for straight men.

Women have similar taste in men to gay men, because both are sexually attracted to men. When I say beauty standards for men focus on what men find attractive, I'm talking about the average man. A straight one. Movie stars like The Rock appeal to a straight male power fantasy, rather than to sexual desire. Beauty standards for women are about sex. Beauty standards for men are about power.