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Follow all blahaj.zone rules
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All posts must be trans-related. Other queer-related posts go to c/lgbtq.
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Don't post negative, depressing news articles about trans issues unless there is a call to action or a way to help.
Resources:
Best resource: https://github.com/cvyl/awesome-transgender Site with links to resources for just about anything.
Trevor Project: crisis mental health services for LGBTQ people, lots of helpful information and resources: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/
The Gender Dysphoria Bible: useful info on various aspects of gender dysphoria: https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en
StainedGlassWoman: Various useful essays on trans topics: https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/
Trans resources: https://trans-resources.info/
[USA] Resources for trans people in the South: https://southernequality.org/resources/transinthesouth/#provider-map
[USA] Report discrimination: https://action.aclu.org/legal-intake/report-lgbtqhiv-discrimination
[USA] Keep track on trans legislation and news: https://www.erininthemorning.com/
[GERMANY] Bundesverband Trans: Find medical trans resources: https://www.bundesverband-trans.de/publikationen/leitfaden-fuer-behandlungssuchende/
[GERMANY] Trans DB: Insurance information (may be outdated): https://transdb.de/
[GERMANY] Deutsche Gesellschaft für Transidentität und Intersexualität: They have contact information for their advice centers and some general information for trans and intersex people. They also do activism: dgti.org
*this is a work in progress, and these resources are courtesy of users like you! if you have a resource that helped you out in your trans journey, comment below in the pinned post and I'll add here to pass it on
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Body hair… I was convinced there was no hope & that I’d never be able to afford to get rid of it all.
Lasers do magic y’all.
You only try epilating your asshole once.
This is beautiful advice & worthy of an infographic, imo.
How pricy can that get? I know i want to get electrolysis for the "bits" because I know I'll probably want that done long term; I've got a decent amount of options for laser in my area right now and if it's affordable enough I'd consider both
So… I did laser first & tried to get as much as cleared as possible, before going to electrolysis. (Above the belt, here. Went all electro downstairs). Those sessions were like $150/hr, + tip, & this was in LA back in 2010.
When I switched to electrolysis, it was $95/hour, and the shop was east coast, in NC.
All in, I think my count was 8-10 hours with laser & another half dozen for electrolysis.
All of that said, each shop will set their own pricing, & I used to be really damn hairy…
One thing I’ll mention is that I’ve heard bad things about Groupon/package type deals, with people feeling they did not get their money’s worth. I guess just be careful buying into a package of sessions, without having test run first.
Also, there is prescription grade numbing cream that is 20% Benzocaine, 8% Lidocaine, & 6% Tetracaine, in a lipoderm cream. I had to show those numbers to my doctor & get them to call it into a compounding pharmacy, because it’s not readily available.
Insurance would not cover, so it was like $60 out of pocket if I remember right, but it was worth it. It was still painful, but the prescription grade stuff was light years ahead of anything store bought that I tried.
Hope this info helps!
This is MASSIVELY helpful, thank you!!
Totally understand, I am currently massively hairy, and it grows back stupidly fast and thick.
Electro place I'm eyeing runs about $85 a session. I've got decent pain tolerance and a pretty good likelihood of that "red hair anesthetic resistance" so idk how effective a numbing cream would be. For an ingrown toenail, they had to come back 3-4 times with injections to numb my big toes
Laser honestly smelt worse than hurt. Electrolysis was whole different kinda evil…
I went without, until it was time for the pits & ‘stache. Both were humbling experiences & convinced me to numb up for the rest of the ride.
Best of luck & happy to help!
Thanks! I feel like it's worth every second of pain. I'm definitely under no illusions for that. Videos of it kinda look like a reverse tattoo in a weird way.