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[โ€“] wscholermann@aussie.zone 5 points 7 months ago (4 children)

Males of this thread, if you have a father in your life does he give you physical contact at all (i.e. hugs etc) and did it change or not change as you got older?

[โ€“] Gibsonisafluffybutt@aussie.zone 7 points 7 months ago (2 children)

When I did it was only violence which stopped as I got older and fought back.

[โ€“] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 5 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

and hugs to fluffy, so many hugs

[โ€“] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 5 points 7 months ago

same ๐Ÿ˜” and I'm not a male

[โ€“] Duenan@aussie.zone 5 points 7 months ago

I still have hugs with my dad though he wasnโ€™t around for half my childhood.

Only when we either greet each other or say goodbye does it happen.

[โ€“] bull@aussie.zone 5 points 7 months ago

I do and he doesn't. We're not a very outwardly affectionate type of family and he's one one of those country town raised boomer types who doesn't go in for that stuff.

[โ€“] Force_majeure123@aussie.zone 5 points 7 months ago

I hug my dad on greeting and parting. It continued that way until adolescence, paused, and resumed at maybe 25 y.o