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So I've got a friend at work; just turned thirty. He's perhaps not the smartest tool in the shed, and whilst he does look thirty, I think if we were guessing his age by his level of maturity, we'd place him fairly squarely in the 18-22 age range.

Anyway, 30 has had this ongoing thing with this girl at work. She's 19. He sees nothing wrong with it, and whilst that may be true from a legal standpoint....most of us think it a bit ... untoward at best.

This post isn't about him though. It's about you. What's your age cut-off, both high and low for dating?

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[–] bionicjoey@lemmy.ca 15 points 7 months ago

Anyway, 30 has had this ongoing thing with this girl at work. She's 19. He sees nothing wrong with it, and whilst that may be true from a legal standpoint....most of us think it a bit ... untoward at best.

I mean... Are they trying to have a serious relationship, or are they just enjoying banging each other? If they're both consenting adults, who cares if their relationship is based mostly on sex? Personally that kind of relationship seems very alien to me, but if they're both enjoying it then does it matter?