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Real life. Bars, clubs, gigs, general public. You've got to be self aware and perceptive.
I don't approach anyone who's not already showing interest. And you have to be polite when rejected. No one wants to deal with a fuckwit.
Hmm you might find sex in that setting but beyond that I'm skeptical in most cases, even for straights.
The real life setting is more likely to be at work or friends of friends. But even that shrinks as you get older.