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General trans community.
Rules:
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Follow all blahaj.zone rules
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All posts must be trans-related. Other queer-related posts go to c/lgbtq.
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Don't post negative, depressing news articles about trans issues unless there is a call to action or a way to help.
Resources:
Best resource: https://github.com/cvyl/awesome-transgender Site with links to resources for just about anything.
Trevor Project: crisis mental health services for LGBTQ people, lots of helpful information and resources: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/
The Gender Dysphoria Bible: useful info on various aspects of gender dysphoria: https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en
StainedGlassWoman: Various useful essays on trans topics: https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/
Trans resources: https://trans-resources.info/
[USA] Resources for trans people in the South: https://southernequality.org/resources/transinthesouth/#provider-map
[USA] Report discrimination: https://action.aclu.org/legal-intake/report-lgbtqhiv-discrimination
[USA] Keep track on trans legislation and news: https://www.erininthemorning.com/
[GERMANY] Bundesverband Trans: Find medical trans resources: https://www.bundesverband-trans.de/publikationen/leitfaden-fuer-behandlungssuchende/
[GERMANY] Trans DB: Insurance information (may be outdated): https://transdb.de/
[GERMANY] Deutsche Gesellschaft für Transidentität und Intersexualität: They have contact information for their advice centers and some general information for trans and intersex people. They also do activism: dgti.org
*this is a work in progress, and these resources are courtesy of users like you! if you have a resource that helped you out in your trans journey, comment below in the pinned post and I'll add here to pass it on
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Most of my favourites are books vaguely about the trans (especially femme) experience. Not for everyone, but I can list a bunch anyway:
Big recs on Nevada. Everyone should read this book at some point.
I tried, but I couldn't do it. I feel like I need to hand in my trans fem card or something...
Hey, it's fine. You know, I couldn't get past the very first level of Celeste, so...
It's hard to admit, but I'm bad at Fallout New Vegas
That's fair, I feel. It's admittedly written in a way that can be very hard to parse or follow and it could be a bit hard to connect with if you're not within a few years of the protag's age.
I do, however, still feel that one should give it another try eventually if it doesn't connect right away. It's a book after all and will not be going anywhere.
I'm not going to hold it up as some kind of trans bible, but Nevada holds a good amount of insight and thoughtful discussion of the way trans women navigate life and social situations both post- and pre-transition. The protagonist is dirty and complicated and arguably 'bad' representation and yet she's a beautiful look into being a trans woman that's not shown, and will never be shown, in popular media.
It's also available as an audiobook and it's read by the author which is a really awesome thing.
I think you're on to something there. I'm not American and I'm a lot older than the protagonist. Her life felt very removed from mine, so I didn't get the feeling of resonating with her experiences the way many people seem to. But you make a good point about coming back to it at some point! I should do that
I tried reading Hell Followed With Us, but as a trans man from a deeply religious rural community in the south it was a little too real for me at the time. 😂 I’ve been thinking about giving it another shot though, from what I remember reading the author’s experiences overlap a lot with mine and I love a good post apocalypse book.
I’ll have to add the rest to my to-read list as well, thanks for the recommendations!
Hello fellow trans man from a deeply religious community in the south. I will definitely be reading that book.