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[–] Jknaraa@lemmy.ml 3 points 9 months ago (4 children)

It was a real eye opener to me when I started dating to find out just how many women would literally ask to be raped. I probably attract that type more than average because of my physical stature, but still it really creeped me out. Never took anyone up on it.

[–] echodot@feddit.uk 6 points 9 months ago

I don't think you can ask to be raped. I think the not getting permission part of it is the important bit.

[–] dragonflyteaparty@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago (1 children)

What you're talking about is roleplay...

[–] Jknaraa@lemmy.ml 6 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

No shit. Role playing rape fantasies.

[–] dangblingus@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Yeah? How many are we talking about? I don't necessarily have a small body count and I've never had this happen to me.

[–] Jknaraa@lemmy.ml 3 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Like I said, it's probably related to how I look and present myself. I guess I fit the bill for what people with such fantasies find to be sexy.

[–] Cracks_InTheWalls@sh.itjust.works 0 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Consensual non-consent != rape.

Though personally, I find that shit a landmine just waiting to explode - that and frankly "Yes" is hotter to me than "No*". But more power to those able to navigate the boundaries successfully where everyone's happier and satisfied for it. If nothing else, master communicators.

Edit: For those who downvoted, seriously, I get it. But it's definitely a thing, and some people happily participate. I've met some - usually very nice folks (as are most people I've met involved in kink communities). I'll also underscore that this is very much NOT the norm - but still more common than people might think.

Decentish broad-strokes article here: https://www.choosingtherapy.com/consensual-non-consent/