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Trying to revive this community. What are your best advice for a health long-term relationships in your 30s? (discuss.tchncs.de)

submitted 9 months ago by Blaze@discuss.tchncs.de to c/askmenover30@lemm.ee

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I've been in a relationship for a bit more than a year, everything doing quite well so far, looking forward to advice to how to make it last.

We are already planning to a have a "date night" every two weeks to get away from the daily routine.

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[–] taladar@sh.itjust.works 8 points 9 months ago

They might also prioritize different things. This is often called "Love languages". Some might value gifts highly while others don't care much for them, others need quality time together without friends while some are perfectly fine spending most of your time together in a group setting,...

This might account for differences in perceived effort by both partners.