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"don't attribute to malice what can be explained by stupidity" is good advice for friends and family.
It's bad advice for salesmen, politicians, corporations, etc. They are more sophisticated than you and will take advantage of your willingness to extend trust after bad behavior.
I dunno. It's pretty easy to attribute their misdeeds to malice.
Or at least to greed and malicious indifference to your concerns.
I think that's what they were saying. For those, it is likely indeed malice. For friends and family, it's likely just stupidity or ignorance.