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[–] CaptainEffort@sh.itjust.works 54 points 10 months ago (3 children)

I don’t judge the age difference as long as they’re both adults. What two consenting adults do is up to them, it’s none of my business.

[–] Socsa@sh.itjust.works 11 points 10 months ago (1 children)

It depends on the relative power imbalance at this point. If a 20 year old is out at bars going home with 50 year old dudes, then slay queen. If it's 20 year old secretary with 50 year old boss, then there's a much higher chance that the situation is fucked, though still not 100% I suppose.

[–] madcaesar@lemmy.world 8 points 10 months ago

I'm always conflicted on the sugar daddy scenario. I mean if a woman is attractive and wants to leverage that into a relationship that makes her financially comfortable, who am I to say no?

[–] TheDoozer@lemmy.world 8 points 10 months ago

Oh, I judge, particularly the older person, but not in some moralistic way. But in a "if at 50 you can have a romantic or sexual relationship, even temporarily, with an 18-year-old, I have some unflattering views of you."

[–] caseyweederman@lemmy.ca 5 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

Hey is that Oyasumi Punpun?

I couldn't remember the name and I am amused that the search string "sad bird manga" worked.

[–] CaptainEffort@sh.itjust.works 3 points 10 months ago

Lol I’m not even surprised, I mean that’s basically what it is