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If you were to lose your job and feeling down, what would you like from a friend to cheer you up? (lemmy.world)
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pizza? flowers? a card?

Also, what's the phrase in english for support and encouragement to keep going when someone is going through a difficult time? In chinese say "加油" (literally: add oil ie. add fuel to keep going) or in french we say "courage", don't know what the phrase is in english.

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[–] OutrageousUmpire@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Just leave them completely alone. Give them time to bury the feelings deep, deep down where they can never come back out.

[–] RGB3x3@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

The key to this is that if they ask for help, you tell them to be a man, suck it up and get back to work.

^^this ^^is ^^sarcasm, ^^obviously.