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[–] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 16 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (3 children)

I'm gonna say this once and not for pity. When I was 3 my mother had cancer. Like big cancer. There were no chemo just radiotherapy. No hugs. No questions asked. You just did as you were told to do. My earliest memories are waiting at Peter Mac. She survived because she had 4 little kids. Imagine that at 33 years of age.

Just recently a spot has been discovered on her leg. She's nearly 76. She doesn't need this shit but she'll fight it like a champ. Applying cream twice a day. Waiting waiting waiting. Jesus Christ I've joked that she could draw her own blood by now.

My Dad he had cancer too when I was 17. He survived but had since passed due to dementia.

What my parents taught me was to take life and do what pleases you. Don't waste it. Don't worry about what you don't have but what you do have. And believe me we had nothing.

So what I'm trying to say is days can go from good to shit real fast that's why I try to enjoy every day because it's conditioned in me from a very early age. Never be afraid of asking questions.

[–] the_procrastinata@aussie.zone 6 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Really glad your mum made it. Definitely great advice to be aware of your body and note any unusual changes to discuss with your doctor.

[–] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 3 points 11 months ago

Yeah as fair skinned red head she's pretty lucky to have that looked at.

[–] Llabyrinthine@aussie.zone 4 points 11 months ago (1 children)

🖤

I think about this way too much, mortality and such. I’ve been just tying to say yes to everything I’ve had an inkling to do in the last few months and it’s been fulfilling.

[–] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 5 points 11 months ago

That's such a good thing. Trying things means knowledge. It fulfills you.

[–] Duenan@aussie.zone 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

That is done good advice that we could all learn from as we live our lives.

I hope your mum will be ok.

[–] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 4 points 11 months ago

Thanks mate. She's a trooper. She'll smash it for sure.