Good morning (excuse my English, it's not my first language), I am very disorganised and forgetful, I always live in a state of anxiety because if I don't make any reminders (for this I use 'saved message' onTelegram) I literally forget appointments, deadlines, so: I always live under persistent stress due to the strain of keeping a lot of things in mind. Of course I own a paper agenda, but I forget to use it.
I'm looking for something that keeps in 'his mind' the things I should keep in mine, so that I can invest energy in other tasks.
In essence, I feel completely unstructured.
Obsidian, inevitably, intrigued me: the idea of looking at one's brain from the outside is an enviable condition, rather than being inside the terrible tangled cage that is my brain.
I saw some tutorials, some of which are very long and some of which are super-fast. I began to think that it is not the tool, but the way one memorises and organises one's notes (in the broadest sense) that makes the difference. I'm afraid that if one has a lot of confusion in one's head, and is always working in a state of emergency, with the fear of having forgotten something, this is the real problem, and there is no Obsidian to help.
How could Obsidian help me? And also: is there any video or document that teaches how to learn it properly?
Thank you very much for your advice.
p.s.
Is there any possibility to sync Obsidian with laptop, mobile and tablet avoiding (for the moment, then if I start using it regularly, I'll happily subscribe) to pay the 8$ monthly fee, also avoiding using Gdrive or any other nosy tool that overbearingly imposes its policy on users?
I also have ADHD.
When you first download Obsidian, they put you in the Obsidian Sandbox vault which is full of "how to use Obsidian" tutorials and is made for you to play around and experiment with. Read as much of it as you think is relevant to you. You can always go back to their tutorials to learn more when you need it. I find the official tutorials good enough to not need to look elsewhere for the basics on "how to use Obsidian". It's cool to read elsewhere for different ways to organize, but I know that I'll end up suffering from organizational/decision paralysis so it's better for me to just go and write. Organize later. Yes, not the best for "staying organized" but at least I'll be writing important stuff down in an area I can use a search function on which is better than nothing at all.
Part of how I stay organized is that everything has a designated place and must always be put there when not in use. This extends to information. "Where did I put my tax returns?" "Well, you always write information of that nature down in Obsidian, use the search tool in Obsidian and search for 'taxes' to find the answer."
My actual Obsidian files are not the prettiest or the most well organized, but I do manage to actually keep all information of a particular nature contained within. This helps a lot.
A few other ADHD tips:
When I put any of my physical belongings down and I don't have a particular place they go in (so this happens less at home, but in the museum I visited for the first time and do not expect to be a regular at? I am definitely not going to have a designated spot for each item the way I do at home), they need to be physically near each other. This has cut down so much on umbrella loss for me.
Also, I am personally an Apple Reminders person. Every time I think of something that must be acted on at a particular date or time that I might forget, I put it in Reminders for that day and/or time, which is set up to send me notifications. For example, I sing in a choir and I usually do not take my music folder home after I finish rehearsal. If I decide I want to take the folder home, there is a good chance I'll forget to do that, so I set a reminder to go off at 7:00PM, when rehearsal ends.
So how does Obsidian play into remembering information if I already use Apple Reminders? I use Obsidian for information I'll probably forget that doesn't have a particular date/time associated with it (like recipes I particularly liked that I don't want to forget, or the difference between three musical terms that I always forget the difference between).
Thanks a lot very kind, as also the others 'lemmitors' who have answered me! ๐ ๐