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Tbh, I don't think that's true. Feeling guilty is not tied to someone else judging you as guilty.
People feel guilty for some dumb thing they said in a conversation 20 years ago that nobody remembers but they themselves. At the same time, they don't feel guilty for things where they are actively creating suffering, e.g. buying stuff that was made with child labour.
And I also don't think, that guilt is a helpful feeling to teach children in this context. It would be much more helpful to teach them to spot inequality and unfair things and to work on resolving that inequality.
I don't think that inherited guilt is a helpful concept at all, because did a white school kid do wrong except being born with that skin color?
This only leads to these kids breaking out of that guilt and hating the whole concept.
It's also quite unfair in total, since it includes the children of those who fought against the injustice and it includes white children that are worse off than the average black person.
It would theoretically also include me, even though I was born and live in a country where slavery was never legal and where black slaves where never a thing.
Guilt, like most other negative emotions, paralyzes. It doesn't lead to any positive change.
What would be much more important to teach children to see those who are less privileged than them and to do what they can to fight that injustice.
But sadly, many Americans see anything that could reduce social injustice as socialism and thus bad, so many prefer to wallow in guilt instead of actually improving the situation.
White guit is intertwined with white pride.
White people who take pride in what their ancestors did are misplacing that pride, generally because they haven't accomplished anything themselves.
In turn, if you didn't personally cause or aid in the injustice, you shouldn't need to feel guilty. You are not your ancestors, race or melanin.
There are other components. For example I feel guilty not about my ancestors’ actions but for the unfair advantage I have in society by not being racialized.