this post was submitted on 04 Nov 2023
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Actually Intersex

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A lemmy community by and for intersex people. Perisex (non-intersex) people can participate but respect the vibe.

To subscribe from another lemmy instance search for !intersex@lemmy.blahaj.zone

RULES:

  1. Be kind to one another.
  2. No harassment or hate speech.
  3. Be as accessible as you can.
  4. This is a space for intersex people. Perisex people may participate but don't be disruptive. This isn't a place for you to work out your intersexism.

GROUND TRUTHS:

  1. Intersex is a big tent. Some people see intersex in medical terms. Some people see intersex through the social model. Some see it as a mix. Some people see intersex as queer. Some see intersex as disabled/crip. Some see it as both. You get the deal. There's no single way to be intersex.
  2. Anybody who experiences or is vulnerable to intersexism gets to call themself intersex if they want. That includes people with PCOS hyperandrogenism, people with Poland syndrome, and people who don't have diagnoses.
  3. TERFs and the alt-right are on a campaign to convince people that intersex is rare, biological sex is simple, and actually intersex people aren't the experts on who is intersex. We need to resist this.
  4. Solidarity with the trans community. While intersex and transness are distinct, our communities have fundamental common ground in being threats to cisperinormitivity.

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It turns out that my intersex condition is there on my ultrasound from 3 months minus two days in (I got formally diagnosed on August 14th, with epispadias, which multiple intersex groups consider to be an intersex condition), and it is visible as what is essentially a second urethra, which you can see right where the indicator arrow is. Basically, one hole above the other, as it is on 2023-taken pictures of me down below. Now I have proof I can actually use for defusing bigots without creating problems. So yay for that!

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[–] Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] stgiga@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago

Also, what this means is that the doctors never caught that something was amiss, even though it was very visible.